Love and other Chores.

I have never been in a relationship before, it was not because I am not attractive enough or lacking in sexual prowess or a homeless hobo, nah, it was neither of those reasons, I have never been in a relationship before because no one of the opposite sex will date me but will rather have me like a “brother” to them.

Prior to the first time I ever told a girl how I felt about her and by consequence got ‘friendzoned’, ‘brother-zoned’, and ‘best-friend zoned’ (in that order), I was a shy wreck *laughs hysterically*. I used to be so shy that it was hard for me to speak to strangers unless spoken to, so generally, I just wanted to be left alone to live in my head in peace while I ignored the world. As you would guess I had to go to school and when I got into the university I was exposed to so many experiences on people-relations and interpersonal relations with strangers that I learnt how to handle and control my shy nature and feel comfortable talking to strangers.

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Books and their Movie Adaptations.

Sherlock seated on his favourite chair in deep thought.

Robert Downey Jr . as “Sherlock Holmes” in the movie “The Game of Shadows”. Culled from http://cdn.collider.com/wp-content/uploads/sherlock-holmes-movie-image-20-600×322.jpg.

Sherlock Holmes became an exciting character for me the first time I saw the Robert Downey Jr in the movie Sherlock(2009) and also the 2011 sequel. I was blown away mostly by the good acting and secondly by the way the story played out. I must confess that the Victorian setting of the movie also played a role in my great interests in the famed investigator because before the movie was released, I was not aware that there were sophisticated characters in the 1800s who had the capacity to outwit even the best investigators of the 1900s and 2000s if given the chance, so I generally wanted to read about this Sherlock Holmes character and I was glad to hear the movie was adapted from a book. It would be worthy of note to state that I love all the Sherlock movies and TV shows I have seen so far with an exception to the CBS version of it called Elementary which I must also state that falls below all the standards I have ever had for an adaptation of the character of Sherlock Holmes. Continue reading

Happy New Year

I started 2016 confused, confused about life, ambition etc. in short the majority of 2016 was a used to reflect and meditate on so many things that have left me confused for a long time and I am glad I was able to reach a decision before the year ran out.

Aside for my personal internal struggles, 2016 was a very strange year, not just for me but for the whole world too.

In 2016, airplanes still got missing like it happened in 2015, we still had the Syrian crisis brewing intensely, Donald trump won the American Election, first female president of Brazil was impeached, the first female president of South Korea was impeached, the UK voted to leave the EU, a lot of Celebrity died, Boko Haram got pushed back and was later defeated, Humanity opened its doors to the Syrian refugees etc. the list is exhaustive.

One of the most important lessons I learnt in 2016 was that no matter who you are, what you believe in, who you believe in, your skin colour etc. everybody is different and these differences should not lead to conflicts but be celebrated because what makes each individual unique is our differences which set us apart. Another thing I was relearnt in 2016 was the power of listening.

Another thing I was relearnt in 2016 was the power and skills to listen to people whether I intend to respond to the person talking or just learn, but to sit down listen, reflect on what has been said and then understand the meaning of what has been said. And I found doing this quite entertaining.

Since I had quite some free time, I also read a lot of books in 2016, although reading 20 books was not part of my plans for the year 2016, I still read quite a lot of books (mostly fictions) and I was proud of myself for this.

All in all 2016 was a weird year for everybody who came out of it alive to see 2017 and I am glad to continue this journey through life too.

Like I said above, 2016 started in a confusing way for me, but I was able to sort myself out before the year ran its course. And now in this 2017 I just have few goals I have set out for myself which will mainly involve a lot of learning and reading. I also intend reading at least 40 books this year, and I also entered into a  “52 weeks writing challenge” I found here because I feel it would be another fun thing to do this.

This is just a little account of how I saw 2016 and some of the things I intend to do in 2017.

I do hope that you guys will have a great 2017, and remember, read many more books than you read in 2016, and if you did not read anything in 2016, read something in 2017.

 

Again, HAPPY NEW YEAR GUYS! and have a great  2017.

Much love.

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The Election: Nigeria vs. the United States of Murika!

Hmmm.

Just to put it out there before you go any further, this post is me rambling about the subject I have chosen as my topic of discussion for this pointless endeavour, so close this page now before you get infected with the pointless disease.

Nigeria is a crazy, stupid, annoying, mad, and among other things a sweet country that is always trying to kill its citizens with every opportunity the country gets. I’m aware that you have just realised that I am referring to the ‘Nigeria’ like it’s a living person. If you’ve lived in Nigeria as much as I have or longer, then you’d probably agree with me. Anyway as I was saying, Nigeria is a weird country in everything, I mean Nigeria is a country that has a National Assembly that would criminalise same-sex marriages but as rumours will have it many of these law makers engage in more acts of sodomy than the people of Sodom and Gomorrah probably did; anyway it’s just kuku rumours, so there is probably no reason to take it seriously. Nigeria is also a country where a set of people in a community will set an alleged thief on fire without at least giving this individual his chance to defend himself, but when a politician who has been alleged to have been caught with enough evidence to send him to jail for 25 to life, these same people will celebrate this politician like he was some kind of hero. Continue reading

Opinion About Nigeria

I am quite sorry I have not posted in a while, I have been reading a lot of books; both fiction and non-fiction. In the past 6 weeks  alone I have read more than 15 different books and honestly, I do not think there is a chance of me slowing down anytime soon.

Out of these 15 books I have read, two are non-fictional books about the Nigerian civil war of 1967 from two authors who provided great perspective to some of the historic issues the civil war raises. I am not going to write a review of the book per se, based on what I have learnt so far, I just feel like I should write down my opinion and share it with you.

The first of the two books I read was My Command by former Nigerian, President Olusegun Obasanjo, while the second book is There Was A Country by Chinua Achebe, even though I felt like I ought to have read them the other way round since the Obasanjo book was a reprint of his book which was first published in the 1980s but was reprinted in 2015 (I believe) as a kind of response or a rebuttal to Achebes’ book. In any case, whichever I chose, I was still able to follow the issues raised, questions asked and answered and also learn a lot of things about the story surrounding the  civil war which the government and the people do a bad job of pretending did not happen.

Before the civil war, there were a lot of events which can be said to have triggered the war, but the most important events were the January 1966 coup, the Kano riot which occurred after the July 1966 counter coup (where many Nigerian citizens especially the Igbos were attacked by the northern Hausa indigenes) and the attitude of the government right before the Kano riot and after. Of course according to Obasanjo in his book, the Federal Military Government (FMG) was slow to respond then because the Supreme Military Council had not chosen a new Head of State (which later turned out to be Gowon), however, according to Achebe not much was done by the FMG (even after Gowon was made Head of State) to protect the Igbo people in the North from attacks and no one was arrested or formally prosecuted for larceny and murder. Basically, law and order broke down but the state was not there to protect the citizens it swore to protect.

Also before the civil war, the government did not carry out its duties of protecting lives and properties, leading to a massive exodus of Igbos from every other part of the country back to the South Eastern Nigeria while answering the call of Ojukwu, the then military governor of Eastern Nigeria in 1966, basically by its action or inaction, the government further polarised the nation along ethnic lines.

The civil war started in July 1967 and then ended on the 15th January 1970 with the secessionist leader of Biafra taking a trip out of Biafra “in search of peace” while his Chief of Staff Col. Effiong surrendered to the Nigerian Army who had already surrounded and taken back territorial control of eastern Nigeria. In the end, northern and southern Nigeria was not any closer together than it was before the 1960 war. Although it is relatively “common knowledge” that during the civil war the Biafrans were made to starve by the FMG who used starvation as a tool to bring the war to a quick end, leading to the death of hundreds of thousands of Igbo people (although the precise number is still a moot point in Nigeria).

Another issue I found interesting in both books was how both authors (in their own way) wrote about how the war was fought and the attitudes of the forces of both sides during the war. For example,  there was report of widespread rape, larceny, murder, and a lot of human rights violations alleged against some of the Igbo people encountered by the Federal forces according to Achebe and a host of other international observers of the war, however, Obasanjo in his book conceded that the Federal troops in the early stages of the campaign looted in every territory it took back from the secessionist group, after which,  he claimed the Federal troops were issued a clear and concise list of ‘dos and don’ts’ from the Geneva Convention which “all” the Federal troops, especially the ones he commanded strictly adhered to. This is just one of the few things I ran into in the book which I felt did not add up.

In any case after reading the books, I am moved to learn more about my country, about how things were good and about how Nigeria has so much prospect and a bright future. I quite agree with both authors about their conclusions that Nigerians need to stop being tribalistic, be more united, focus on kicking out corruption, pay attention to governance, promote free and fair election, be more trusting of one another and so on.

One important lesson learnt, war of any kind is not the answer to any kind of question/dispute you may have, and the reason for this is not even farfetched. The past 10 years alone has seen the Middle East and the Eurasia (Ukraine/Russia conflict) turned into war devastated zones, especially in the Middle East leading to the huge migration of middle easterners into Europe. Although we humans pride ourselves as prime and higher animals with higher intellect, however with all the wars and conflict (previously fought and/or currently in progress)  which have led to the uncountable loss of human lives will rebut this presumption of higher intelligence.

A show of aggression is not the last resort to the resolution of a conflict and lives need not be lost for same to happen; who knows, maybe the world just needs a little bit more of a conscience and empathy.

 

 

 

Africans, African Leaders and the ICC.

The International Criminal Court (ICC) was established by the Rome Statute which is an international treaty/agreement binding on countries who are signatories to and ratify the convention. The Rome Statute is a diplomatic treaty that was adopted and came into force on the 1st July, 2002 and established the ICC. The Rome Statute has 139 signatories and 124 parties to it.

By the provisions of the Rome Statute, the ICC has the power to investigate and prosecute on the following core international crimes:

  1. Genocide
  2. Crimes against humanity
  3. War crimes
  4. Crime of aggression.

The investigative powers of the ICC is mostly triggered where states who are signatories to the Rome Statute are either unable or unwilling to investigate the above listed international crimes under the jurisdiction of the court. Continue reading

The Jungle Justice System in Nigeria

One would think that with the way and rate at which jungle justice happens in Nigeria that it is indigenous to the Nigerian people, however this is not the case. Like in other communities, societies and countries all over the world, there are times when mob-justice or jungle justice occurs. And this occurrence is not just because there are no adequate or available legal justice system in place, it’s just that when there are a group of people or where people form an agitated group it becomes harder for an individual to act or make decision as one but easier as a group.

Like I said, jungle justice occurs all over the world and the United States of America is not excluded on these list of countries, but the form it takes here and the rationale with which this type of justice is carried out is a little peculiar in Nigeria and I will narrate an instance of jungle justice I witnessed  to support my opinion as well as what I have seen and heard. Continue reading